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How to Impress your girl?

(Hey buddy ! Wanna Lower her ???)

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• YOUR AIM: The creation of impression should be an ongoing process almost like climbing a ladder. She should be so much under your impression that she only considers the positive in you and keeps ignoring the negative.

• INTELLECTUALLY: This comes first in all circumstances.
  a) She needs to be stimulated intellectually. This mental compatibility will bind you together. If you are intelligent, let her know this. But before you rush off to your intended sweetheart to swagger 'bout yourself, get down to the basics and prepare yourself wreally well. For that you'll need to be in the know. Do not feel that Current affair's or what's happening around in the world is not your cup of tea. Be aware.
  b) The keyword is to be SUBTLE. Dropping small hints at times will work wonders.

• BEHAVIOR WISE: This is a vast area and includes certain very important zones that need to be constantly worked upon and attended to regularly, viz.: your manners, bearing, poise, demeanor, your conduct, reaction and adjustments with people etc.
  
  a) Remember you are under constant microscopic watch. Every single thing you do is being minutely observed and goes a long way in creating an impression on her. The way you carry yourself, the way you greet her, the way you treat her, your table manners, phone manners, style of framing sentences, voice pitch etc. If you are able to control your impression on her you can actually control the way she thinks about you.
  
  b) Set your life principles. Let your life be governed by them. Saying 'I am sorry, my principles do not allow me to do that' creates a good impression provided it is used at the right time, at the right place and on the right occasion. Occasionally break them for her, if you find it necessary. Make sure to let her know that it is because of her that you are doing so. But don't you force it down her throat, either.

• Learn to say 'I am sorry'. Have guts to accept your mistakes. Never blame others for your doings. Accepting your mistakes boldly actually elevates you in every ones eyes. This mirrors your courage.

• Don't accept what is wrong. Instead, fight it out. Remember this: to get a wrongdoer out of filth, at times you might have to get into it.

• Don't just behave like a gentleman. Be one. A kind heart to others means a kind heart to her. It doesn't mean that you shell out 20 bucks for a beggar in her presence. You have to show your kind heart not money. The way you treat a person, be it a beggar or a waiter in a restaurant reveals your inner self.

• Getting irritated or impatient might prove to be very damaging in the long run. Anger is your worst enemy. Keep it tightly under control.

• If you ever commit anything to her, keep your word. Else let her know in time 'WHY' you couldn't. She should know that you dislike making false promises. Do this by following commitments.

• Even if the female in question is wrong, tell her politely when alone. Don't insult her.

• Remain well informed of her weaknesses. They should be your strength. Know about her deepest set backs in life. Help her out in revealing them. Use body language on such occasions.

• If she criticizes or speaks ill of something or somebody, use your reasoning to modify her thinking. Convince her logically and rationally. Don't make this a habit. Be genuine.

It is really frustrating that she does not respond the way you want her to. However if you are able to control her impressions of you, you can make her want to do what you want her to do.

HOW TO BELL THE CAT:

No, this doesn't mean you are a rat. But before you get set to securing a firm grip on your girl, certain things oughtta be clear to you. ZIP AHEAD through the basics:

• Truly respect her. There are absolutely no compromises on this. Apart from this, respect folks at her place. Yes that means her dog too!

• Respect all human beings. Do not forget that females are a subgroup.

• Treat her, as you'd like to be treated. Actually this rule needs to be followed with almost everyone you deal with.

• While complementing, be genuine or else don't do it. Don't you ever overdo in this area even if you really feel like doing it. It might seem artificial. And we don' want it, do we?

• Genuinely love yourself. The emotion is reflected through your entire persona. But take care to not to get fat- headed 'bout yourself either.

• Be aware of yourself. You should know the impression you wish to create and how to go about it. Most of the people who create impressions very strongly are unaware of the fact that they are creating impressions Yes, but negative.

• Don't let anything tamper with your ideals.

• Be true to others but to yourself first. This way, you will be at peace with yourself whether you manage to get your sweetheart or not.

• Enjoy a good rapport with her friends.

THE DO NOT'S:

• Don't let her know that you are mad after her. Remember that 'A girl is like your shadow, follow her - she flees, Flee her - she follows'.

• Do not follow her just to communicate that you love her. There are various other better ways of communicating.

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