The women You should Stay Away from !

Tips 'n Tricks # 01: How important your selection is !

Yes, I could not marry the girl I loved, now I realise that my parents had blackmailed me emotionally, now that I have a wife & two kids, I cannot spin the wheel of fortune back - Divorce is not my cup of tea. Here is the crux of my experiences for the young ones...

One of the biggest misfortunes of life is to love a wrong person, shower her with all you have, your heart, your soul, your dreams & your future and then realise that she is not the type of girl you had set your heart upon. Remember in the first relationship you give a lot, in the second or third relationship you reserve a lot. You just don't want to go back to square one with all that painful memories.

If by misfortune you get married to a wrong kind of girl (any girl would be termed as a wrong kind when compared to the girl you loved), you will never be able to make up in your life. Men feel that they have lost everything in life. The following happens when you get married to a wrong kind of women or if you could not marry the girl you loved,  after the scintillating sex oriented first year the following gradually creeps like a poison into your heart, mind and relationship:

• I could not marry the girl of my choice.

• I could not get a good friend.

• I could not get a good wife.

• One becomes socially reserved, calm & quite.

• When you have children, you could not get a good mother to your offspring (s).

• Spending time alone would become your hobby.

• You will become workaholic.

• You would, in all possibilities, be just living for the sake of living with no dreams, no life - you just live.

• Laughter, happiness & joy become alien feelings.

• At every stage your wife is compared ironically with the sweet girl whom you loved & could not marry.

• Your life will be reflected upon your face.

• Worst - You will not be able to speak your heart out to anyone.

So, before you give your fragile heart to someone, think again - its a very serious matter and can affect your dreams & life drastically. Last not the least, come what may, marry the girl you love. Undertake the sole responsibility of your own life - be it happiness or sadness.

Submitted by: Kshitij Sinha  

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