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The normal human psychology, when you fall in love with a person, is that the feeling is here to stay forever! Love is a beautiful emotion and you feel that you cannot stay without the object of your affection. Therefore you may assume that you can never experience the same feeling for any other person. Alas! This is not always true. Lovers quarrel, engagements are broken, love pledges are returned and even married couples take divorce! However, a long-term commitment definitely needs to be evaluated before you can make any decision. If you act on your impulses… if you don't "look before you leap" you may go straight "from the frying pan and into the fire"!
In such a case you both need to shake yourselves out of this apathy! Right now you are seeing this new guy through 'rose colored spectacles'. When you spend more time with him this phase will pass away. You will see him as he is - with his faults and imperfections. You then start comparing him unfavorably with your earlier boy friend. This will take you to square one. Then, you will get infatuated by next prince charming… In addition, in general, we humans tend to give all in our first relationship. In the second relationship we reserve a lot. Life's like that sweetie! Don't judge a book by its cover. Take your time to fall in or out of love. |
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