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What
role does your behavior just after sex play in your future
relationship? What inference does he draw about the inner you just
after sex?
You had sex with him. Fine.
Great going Sweetie ! But what impression did you cast upon him? Have you girls ever pondered
upon it? Your relationship can entirely change after having sex with him
and it depends quite a lot upon your immediate behavior towards your man
just after sex.
In the context, here we make
two most natural considerations:
1. That
every guy
wants to have an ideal life partner, who has character, ethics, moral
values, can take care of his family and kids and is not of a loose moral
character.
2. That the sex was great & the girl wants to marry this guy too.
The girls behavior after sex
generally falls into three categories:
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The First category
females, "You want it, I want it - lets have it", after
having sex are happy go merry types. Sex is natural. They do not show
any kind of concern, So when are we having next? That was great honey !
They walk around the room nude, make coffee, light a cigarette and
make love again and sleep naked holding his organ without even bothering to
cover themselves.
Impression: The guy watches her - may
not utter a single word but in due course of time reasons with himself about her moral values,
character, ethics and outlook towards life. This kind of girl may
cheat upon him after marriage. In due course of time or during rough
waters he will dump her without much of a trouble. -
The
second category females, after having sex are normal, neither very
happy nor sad - it's a 60:40 ratio, it was nice, she cuddles up, intimacy is radiated heavily,
makes her guy feel good in every way, her 40% depression dispels
easily as the guy consoles her, promises the moon upon askance, makes
her feel good, emotional talks, love talks, it's love and joy all over...
Impression: The
guy feels that both of us wanted it and enjoyed. He knew that such a
situation (40%) would arise and that he has to handle the girl. He
does remain under the influence but his emotional threshold is not
touched. Definitely she has values, character and ethics but under
changing seasons & troubled waters, to some extent he will consider her sexual
involvement but... may leave her... life's like that...
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The
third category females, after having sex gets up (may or may not
wash), covers up and becomes emotional, she does not talk to her guy for about
4 to 5 minutes, her head is deep buried between her thighs or into the
pillow - to the
extent that she sobs, Why did you do it? What have you done to me? You have spoiled my life ! Will you marry me?
A small scene is created. The guy feels
guilty of the situation, becomes emotional, he knows deep inside that
it was he who cajoled her to have sex. He becomes damn emotional. He
somehow manages to handle the weeping emotional girl.
Impression: The
guys emotions shoot above his threshold, he feels guilty of the
situation, curses himself and feels that he is solely responsible. The
little women inside the man is hurt & gets emotional. He
promises himself never to leave her. He gets into his own emotional
wheel and if the girl is smart enough to make him spin into that in
the days & times to follow, he
will in all possibilities, in changing seasons take care of his girl.
He knows she is a complete faithful life partner, girl with character, ethics, moral
values, the type of girl he always desired and would make sure not to leave her.
Now how do ya do it? Do ya want to
marry this guy too? Well if your facade matches with Female No.3 - No
problem - just be smart to spin him. If you fall in the category of female No.2 - with a little
acting and emotional dialogues you girls are smart enough to manage - guy's do not have that
strong sixth sense ;-). The real problem lies with female no.1. Her facade
and life style does not match with female no.3. Well you can always
claim to be straight laced about sex from day one of your relationship.
During conversation whenever such a topic pops up, you can convey your
emotions and theories. Take the benefit of doubt - remember when the
going gets tough, then the tough gets going. Note:
If you choose to act out like Female No. 3, be sure of two things, first
that HE cajoled you to have sex and that HE wanted to have it and you
HAD to give in - 'Pleasing Policy, U C ;-) ',
secondly not to create a big
scene, sense your moment. Scene overdone, you will soon loose your guy
with a bad experience. 
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