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How to Lower Your guy ?

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WATCH YOUR STEPS: If at all you wish to have a long term relationship, never let your guy know that you have to make a big fool of your parents just to hang around with him. He will appreciate today but when the final Decision Day comes he might think that you would cheat on him too. You are too clever to be his life time partner.

Which is the thinnest book in the world?
Female: "What Men Know About Women".
Male: "Biographies of Happy women".

BUFFER BOY: Men tend to acquire what is forbidden. If you want Mr. Right to propose you, pop up this buffer guy (next to Mr. Right) and make him a rival of your dream guy.
YOUR IDENTITY: Create an identity of your own. Be a little different than the others. Any style that suits you may be chosen. It is said, "if you want to worship - worship in Sanskrit, if you want to love - love in Urdu". Learn some 40 - 50 common words of Urdu and keep juggling them. They sound great.
MIRRORING CHEMISTRY: At the height of conversation at times with few people you feel that you share a wavelength.

If observed closely you two would also be mirroring the hand and body moves of each other. For example if one while sitting leans forward you long to do it too, if one needs a gulp of water you need it too… This creates a psychological chemistry.

Practice it with friends first and later use it to your advantage. Copy his moves let him feel the chemistry building up. Do not practice this on him on the very first day.

LEAVE HIM OUT: Always keep yourself involved in something that does not involve him. You could have, but you did not. He will soon seek your company. A great positive.
ATTENDING TO HIS PROBLEMS: Listen to him attentively. If he has a problem, encourage him to talk it out. Let him finish. Don't jump in and start pouring your suggestions. If he is revealing his problems, which you feel are delicate ones i.e., hard to say, don't look into his eyes. Look down or sideways or prefer to have a small walk side by side. It is really difficult to reveal problems when someone is prying into your eyes. If it gets increasingly difficult for him to pour it all out, gently press his shoulder, arm. Or simply press his hands. This is to symbolize your support. Once he is done with, comfort him. Make that problem yours. Solve it logically and rationally. Be a 'mentor' to him. If you are successful in becoming his mentor, you are through.
GIFTS: Avoid gifts in the early hours of friendship. It can be reflected in hundred other ways. Go out for dinner, buy tickets to shows etc. If you must - let it be a creative idea rather than buying expensive gifts.
CAREER: Do not sideline your career under any circumstances. You should know your career goals, where you have to be & in what time. Have realistic ones and persist with them.
HUMOR: Sense of humor plays a pivotal role in creating your impression. Learn to laugh at yourself. Don't take your self too seriously. This doesn't mean you stop respecting yourself. There is a tremendous difference betwixt the two. One that most of us fail to realize.
JOKES: Surf the net for jokes. They are in abundance. Be very selective as the jokes you choose to tell or laugh at depict a lot about your inner personality.
GAIN HIS CONFIDENCE: Conceal mutual issues just between the two of you, especially the delicate ones. Take extra care to never reveal these even to your best friend. If you fail here, you are gone. What is worse you will deserve it too. The situation would be too embarrassing and humiliating. It would probably be almost impossible to win his confidence back. It takes hours, days, weeks, months & even years to build it but only a second to break.
KNOW HIM: Encourage him to talk more. Let him reveal more & more about himself, him family. Such kind of discussions should be initiated when only you two are alone. Know about his future plans. Let him know that you are concerned about his future.
TEASE HIM: If he is expecting a phone call, avoid it. Remember! Your dog needs vaccination. Go for the same. Keep him anticipating… if at all you want to bell the cat. Next day when he asks about the evening, tell him so.
SET TIME FRAMES: Remember if he wants to be with you, he will do 'what not' to be close to you. Have patience. Make targets - I will call him after three days… wait honey wait… there are fair chances that you may receive his call if at all you are playing the game properly.
OPPOSITES ATTRACT: If you are quiet and introvert - you will, in all probabilities, be drawn towards a bright, outgoing personality as it helps you to come out of your cocoon and open up, if you are an impulsive person you'll tend to be attracted to a more down-to-earth and stable personality, If you are the very cautious type, you'll never cease to admire those who are more enterprising and daring. So understand his personality fast and cultivate accordingly.