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Don't order anything for yourself that you are not comfortable eating and mess up the show.
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While conversing maintain eye contact. Don't try to avoid looking into the eyes or stare bluntly. Both are equally offensive.
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Be interested in her sincerely. Try to know more about her. For God's sake don't be too inquisitive and probing. Set your limits for this date.
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Don't go on endlessly about YOURSELF. She will find you a big bore and a terrible egoist!
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Ask questions. Be a good listener. Wait for her to complete what she has to say.
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Make her feel exclusive and don't let your attention get diverted with any gorgeous female around you.
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Don't display possessiveness. This might make her want to catch the first cab back home.
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While on your first few dates don't let cell phones or pager beeps disturb you.
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Learn to give sincere compliments.
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Choose to go to such places where both of you can be in peace and feel completely comfortable.
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Gals love guys who have sense of humour. So relax and lighten up! Arm yourself with a handful of cool jokes. Remember the jokes you choose to crack or laugh at say a lot about your inner self.
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Be sure to drop her home before you'll part.
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You need to be honest with your date but you need not spend your first or second date talking of your ex girlfriend.
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Don't pour out all your hang-ups to her on your first few dates. You all have got together to have some fun and she would not like to assume the role of an 'agony aunt' or 'shrink'.
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The way you communicate with your date is important. Phrase your words smoothly so that you do not sound offensive or crude.
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Timing is very important. There is always a right time to pitch the idea. You should not talk too much too soon.
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Intimate details of your life can wait. First get to know her well. Allow time for your friendship and feelings to blossom.
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Behind a veil a woman seems more attractive to a man. Similarly if the girl finds you an enigma the greater are the chances that she will be around you for a longer time.
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Keep your romance alive. Women love to be romanced the right way! Don't try to rush your date into any kind of commitment.
