How to know the Rat?

Tips 'n Tricks # 01: Check him out !

My intuition said, he is two timing me, yet I loved him. One day I reached his house, I saw him (through the window) dialing a number and talking to someone on the other end. When I reached his room, he got slightly confused and quickly ended the conversation saying that he'll call after sometime. Upon my askance, he said, "I was having a chat with Pankaj" and quickly changed the topic. I smelled Something amiss, something fishy... I asked him for a glass of water, the moment he went out of the room, I picked up the phone & pressed the REDIAL key. The voice on the other end came of  Sonalika, a common friend of us. Along with the history of several other factors, I understood and kept the receiver. After that I stopped meeting & calling him - Controlled myself. Love cannot be snatched. Well, I am still avoiding him meeting other people who need me.

Submitted by: Pooja Mehta, Mumbai 

Tips 'n Tricks # 02: Who is your Mr. Right !

If you ever come across a situation wherein you are not able to decide between two Mr. Right's - Mr. X and Mr. Y, try this. Flip a coin, heads - it is Mr. X, Tails - it is Mr. Y. As the tossed coin starts coming down, your sixth sense expects one of the two, Heads or Tails. This trick often tells you about the hidden answers which we often do not understand consciously.

Submitted by: Ibrahim, Bangalore

Tips 'n Tricks # 03: How I selected Mr. Right !

Both were damn good friends, Both had proposed me within a span of 4 hours, both knew (I was told to hold my approval until the other proposed), Both had the same deadly charm, great family backgrounds, Both claimed to Love me, Both were waiting for my approval - I was in a dilemma, at times Shashank was Mr. Right, at times Sudhanshu was Mr. Right. What to do, whom to choose?

Well while deciding, I was with my best friend Prachi, who suggested - there has to be a chink. Prachi suggested that she would give an anonymous call to both, one by one, and let's watch there responses. I agreed. She picked up the Phone, talked very seductively to Shashank, who very decently talked and kept the phone. We were puzzled & thought that Sudhanshu would also do the same. We took the chance. She called Sudhanshu and talked seductively, to my surprise the conversation continued, she kept seducing him he kept enjoying and reciprocating to the extent that the blind date was set up the next day at 8:00 PM. Well, I did not care to find out whether he went or not, now that I knew my Mr. Right.

Submitted by: Chitraangi Srivastava, Mumbai

Tips 'n Tricks # 04: Personality Change Syndrome !

In the presence of his desired girl, the personality of a guy automatically upgrades to the best. Even the guy would, at times, be surprised at his behavior. It is very psychological. The girl, if not careful, can fall into his treacherous trap. One of the biggest misfortunes of life is to love a wrong person, shower him with all you have, your heart, your soul, your dreams & your future and then realise that he is not the type of person you had set your eyes upon. Remember in the first relationship you give a lot, in the second or third relationship you reserve a lot. You just don't want to go back to square one with all that painful memories.

In order to know a person, you don't need big instances, the small ones tell all. A simple glance, his behavior towards powerless people, animals and other very small small things can tell you the inner him - which is the actual him. Next time you meet him, watch out minutely - you will know the inner him. Don't be ignorant.

Submitted by: Pankaj Seth, New Delhi, pseth2000@yahoo.com 

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